Male chastity devices have become common and very popular nowadays. Since they’ve become more readily available in mainstream adult shops and on-line this once niche fetish is far more accessible to enjoy than when the devices first hit the market many years ago. Nowadays, men who wear these devices proudly and openly talk about their use because it’s something that has proven to be beneficial to many relationships. Do a quick search for chastity on Twitter and you’ll be inundated with a stream of pictures and videos showing off a wide variety of cage designs and sizes. If you are considering buying one to lock yourself or to be locked by your partner, this article is for you.
When buying a cock cage you need to make sure that it fits you perfectly or it will not serve its purpose. It’s also very important to choose a male chastity kit that’s comfortable to wear for a long time if that’s something you wish to do. To make sure that the male chastity device will be a perfect fit you’ll need to review the following things before you buy:
- The ring
If you have ever seen a chastity cage, then you will have noticed that many of them, though not all, have a back ring. These devices are called ball-trap cages. Why is that? It’s in the name! They trap your testicles between the ring and cage, which holds the kit firmly in place.
The ring of the cage should be able to fit around the base of the penis as well as scrotum perfectly. If the ring doesn't fit you correctly a number of issues can come up. One, if it’s too small it will cut off blood circulation, which can be spotted by discolouration. If that happens remove the ring immediately and, if you have one to hand, go for a larger ring. Secondly, a ring that’s too big can rub against your sensitive skin and burn it. You can also remove yourself from the device, which entirely defeats the point. If you measure yourself properly before you order a male chastity cage these issues can be avoided.
- The length of your penis
When it comes to buying a new cock cage, the size of your penis is very important. There is no negotiation with this, you have to accurately measure the length of your penis before buying the cage. Don’t measure your cock when it is fully hard! I can’t emphasise that enough. The goal of buying a male chastity device is to prevent you from becoming hard, so measuring it when it’s erect will give you the wrong measurements.
To make sure that you get the best cage, measure the length of your penis when it is completely flaccid. I recommend checking these measurements at least two or three times over a number of days. The temperature in your environment, be it at home or outdoors, can affect your sizes as you’ll expand and shirt over the course of a day. Make sure the measurements you take are accurate because if what you measure is too short you won’t be able to fit into it comfortably. Picking a cage that’s too big will cause a lot of discomfort, particularly at night, when you try to get erect.
The best fitting cage will sit perfectly on the tip of your penis. You don’t want any room to grow into it. Ask the retailer you plan to buy from if the measurements they provide include the cage and back-ring or just the cage section. This has caught a few people out before, so do your due diligence before hitting that buy button.
- The diameter of your penis
In the same way you don’t want to measure the length of your penis when you’re hard the same applies here with the diameter (or girth). Take an average measurement over a few days at different times. If you go for a cage that’s too wide you won’t fit into it when you try to put it on. Be patient and do it correctly the first time and you won’t need to keep buying new chastity cages over and over again. Trust me, I’ve been there. It’s easy to avoid doing this, so check the details provided by the retailer and make your choice based on the measurements you take.
The aim here is to select a cage that you sit snugly inside. If you need a little help, use some water based lube or the stocking method to slide into it.
- Material
With a massive selection of male chastity devices on the open market it’s important to recognize that they’re made from different materials. Most cages are made from plastic, metal or silicone. Some new cages that have become available more recently are produced with 3D printed nylon.
If you choose to go for a metal cage please make sure that it’s made from stainless steel. This will ensure that it’s waterproof and won’t rust when you routinely clean it in the shower. It’s recommended that you fully remove the cage at least once or twice a week to clean yourself thoroughly and to avoid unpleasant odors. This is particularly true if you’re uncut as a build up of smegma underneath your foreskin can cause irritation.
Plastic cages are rigid and secure in the same way metal cages are, though they don’t tend to be as robust. A plastic kit is typically quite lightweight and you’ll very quickly forget that you’re wearing it. This can be really beneficial if you plan to wear your cage for a long time, though you’ll want to ensure that it’s not a totally closed design. Bacteria can build up inside these cages if you don’t clean them often.
Silicone cages are really aimed at beginners or those who want some casual bedroom fun. Due to the flexible material they’re made from they don’t offer much security, but if you’ve never tried wearing a male chastity cage before they do have their benefits. They’re usually quite cheap to buy, so if you decide chastity isn’t for you the initial investment won’t be massive. The kits also typically come with a selection of ring sizes, which will give you an idea of what back-ring size fits you best before investing in a more long term solution.
